EPISODE 235: Interview with Jace Ryden
Jace C. Ryden is a queer, kinky, pansexual, poly, trans man, who has made Arizona his home for over twenty years. He prides himself on being an outspoken advocate for transgender and civil rights and, as an "out" transgender man, has made it a point to use his powers for good, as it were, and has spoken publicly about his transition and his experiences as a member of the trans, poly, and kink communities. He's the co-creator of "How to be a Trans Ally" and "From Allies to Accomplices: L.E.A.P.ing into Action", which have been presented at numerous conferences and teaching opportunities since 2019. Jace is also an award-winning entertainer, emcee, and producer, and is the co-host of Arizona's longest-running drag livestream, Let's Have a Fefe, which just wrapped up it's 11th season. You can follow his work at:
Email: jcryden@gmail.com
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jaceryden/
If you get value out of the Loving Without Boundaries podcast, then consider becoming one of our patrons! Not only will you enjoy exclusive content made just for you, your support will also help us continue creating educational content while helping more people have a deeper understanding of consensual non-monogamy and healthy, sex positive relationships in general.
https://www.patreon.com/lovingwithoutboundaries
EPISODE 234: Interview with JoEllen Notte.
JoEllen Notte is a writer, speaker, and mental health advocate, whose work explores the impact of depression on sex and relationships. She is the author of “The Monster Under The Bed: Sex, Depression, and the Conversations We Aren't Having” (Thorntree Press, 2020) and “In It Together: Navigating Depression with Partners, Friends, and Family” (Thornapple Press, 2023). You can follow her work on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/joellennotte) or via her website (https://www.redheadbedhead.com/)
If you get value out of the Loving Without Boundaries podcast, then consider becoming one of our patrons! Not only will you enjoy exclusive content made just for you, your support will also help us continue creating educational content while helping more people have a deeper understanding of consensual non-monogamy and healthy, sex positive relationships in general.
https://www.patreon.com/lovingwithoutboundaries
EPISODE 233
Interview with Cindy Gallop.
EPISODE 233: Interview with Cindy Gallop.
Cindy Gallop is the founder and CEO of MakeLoveNotPorn, launched at TED 2009 – “Pro-sex. Pro-porn. Pro-knowing the difference”. In 2013, she turned MakeLoveNotPorn into the world’s first user-generated, human-curated social sex videosharing platform, socializing and normalizing sex in order to make it easier to talk about, to promote consent, communication, good sexual values and good sexual behavior.
MakeLoveNotPorn’s mission is to end rape culture by spearheading the Social Sex Revolution (the revolutionary part isn’t the sex, but the social). Cindy speaks at conferences globally and consults, describing her approach as ‘I like to blow shit up. I am the Michael Bay of business’.
She can be found via:
Website : https://cindygallop.com/contact | https://makelovenotporn.tv/
Email : cindy@makelovenotporn.com
Twitter: https://twitter.com/cindygallop
Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/cindygallop
If you get value out of the Loving Without Boundaries podcast, then consider becoming one of our patrons! Not only will you enjoy exclusive content made just for you, your support will also help us continue creating educational content while helping more people have a deeper understanding of consensual non-monogamy and healthy, sex positive relationships in general.
https://www.patreon.com/lovingwithoutboundaries
EPISODE 232
Interview with Tatiana Carrera.
Tatiana Carrera, Published Author of a self-help guide, Oralicious, The Truth About Oral Sex, Intimacy and Passion, Screenwriter of 5 Senses: A Tale of Sex; Script is currently being Pitched to Streaming Services. She’s a Podcaster of Oralicious – A Tale of Sex, now in it’s 5th Season, a Relationship and Sexuality Coach, and host of one the hottest Rooms on Clubhouse, The Pleasure Journey, daily at 1:05 pm (EST); with 5K followers and growing. Also in discussions, to License her USPTO Trademark ORALICIOUS, a lipstick & Cocktail brands.
Tatiana states, “We live in a fast paced, instant gratification, and sexually charged culture that moves from point “A” right to “Z” when defining how orgasms are and should be obtained, often ignoring points “B” through “Y.” Getting Back to Basic is an attempt to shift our focus from the now instant sexual gratification of achieving an orgasm to all the sensual points that fall in between. Taking a moment to learn how to enjoy the sexual Pleasure Journey by kissing, incorporating our 5 Sex Senses when we are in the act of SEXplay, and finding our Erogenous Zones, so that we all can achieve an explosive orgasm.”
Tatiana currently resides in the Big Apple and sees herself as a pure optimist. Always be hopeful, positive, and accountable for your actions; it does make life less stressful. "Always embrace and be true to thy SELF. Self Love, Self Care, Self Awareness, and Self Exploration is your BIRTHRIGHT.
She can be found via:
Email : asktatti@gmail.com
Website : https://oralicious.com/
Podcast : https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/oralicious-a-tale-of-sex/id1410176112?i=1000415692002
Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/tatianacarrera_sx_coach/
Facebook : https://www.facebook.com/Oralicious-232623933962661
Twitter : https://twitter.com/OraliciousInc
If you get value out of the Loving Without Boundaries podcast, then consider becoming one of our patrons! Not only will you enjoy exclusive content made just for you, your support will also help us continue creating educational content while helping more people have a deeper understanding of consensual non-monogamy and healthy, sex positive relationships in general.
https://www.patreon.com/lovingwithoutboundaries
EPISODE 231
Interview with Gordon and Jennifer.
Gordon and Jennifer – who have both been in marriages that failed due to infidelity on each of their partner’s part – met and have enjoyed a great relationship together, having lived in a monogamous marriage for 20 years. After reading some kinky books, searching other fun sexual activities, and their growing ever closer and curious about their own fantasies, Gordon and Jenn stepped out into the world to explore making some of these sexual fantasies a reality. Two years ago, starting with a threesome, after adventuring out to a sex club – because that experience was so fun and exciting – Gordon began seeing the excitement and motivation Jenn was having towards this new world. Yet pangs of some of the old feelings of his past marriage and the infidelity, that caused so much difficulty, came rushing back in. This is the reason that brings Gordon & Jennifer to the Jealousy Survival Guide (Loving Without Boundaries) coaching program.
If you get value out of the Loving Without Boundaries podcast, then consider becoming one of our patrons! Not only will you enjoy exclusive content made just for you, your support will also help us continue creating educational content while helping more people have a deeper understanding of consensual non-monogamy and healthy, sex positive relationships in general.
https://www.patreon.com/lovingwithoutboundaries
EPISODE 230:
Interview with Jeff Gleason and Sarah Love.
Jeff and Sarah have been together almost 8 years. They have been open-relating for 5 of those years. Jeff is a public school educator and men's coach, and Sarah is a sex educator. They live in Colorado with their two kids, age 13 and 8. Here they will share their incredible results that they achieved working within our open-relating coaching program here at Loving Without Boundaries, as another amazing client success story.
If you get value out of the Loving Without Boundaries podcast, then consider becoming one of our patrons! Not only will you enjoy exclusive content made just for you, your support will also help us continue creating educational content while helping more people have a deeper understanding of consensual non-monogamy and healthy, sex positive relationships in general.
https://www.patreon.com/lovingwithoutboundaries
Episode 229 : Eleanor O'Brien Interview.
Eleanor OBrien is the artistic director of Dance Naked Creative, a sex-positive theater and event company. She is a writer, performer and facilitator. She is the creator of solo shows Plan V, How to Really, Really? Really! Love a woman, GGG: Dominatrix for Dummies and Lust & Marriage. She directed and starred in the Inviting Desire series, ensemble productions that include A Theatrical Aphrodisiac, Lubricate Your Libido, Pleasure, Permission, Possibility...and The Dawn of Sex. She has produced & directed the community cabarets What Is Erotic?, Revelations, and Sex We Can! and is the founder of the biennial sex and culture theater festival Come Inside. She hosts the monthly erotic open mic Stand Up Smut, and teaches workshops exploring the intersection between sexuality and creativity. She holds an MFA from The University of San Diego/Old Globe Theatre.
You can follow her work at dancenakedproductions.com, Instagram @dancenakedcreative or Facebook.
If you get value out of the Loving Without Boundaries podcast, then consider becoming one of our patrons! Not only will you enjoy exclusive content made just for you, your support will also help us continue creating educational content while helping more people have a deeper understanding of consensual non-monogamy and healthy, sex positive relationships in general.
https://www.patreon.com/lovingwithoutboundaries
EPISODE 228: Interview with Sander T. Jones.
Sander T. Jones is a licensed psychotherapist with well over a decade of experience living polyamory, and working with clients in non-monogamous relationships. As a relationship therapist, they have taught hundreds of people the steps and principles for collaborative communication, conflict resolution, respecting the rights and autonomy of themselves and their partners, repairing and deepening relationship bonds while being solidly affirming of LGBTQ+, Kink/BDSM, BIPOC people. And now they are the author of a book that teaches this information: “Cultivating Connection: A practical guide for personal and relationship growth in ethical non-monogamy.”
If you get value out of the Loving Without Boundaries podcast, then consider becoming one of our patrons! Not only will you enjoy exclusive content made just for you, your support will also help us continue creating educational content while helping more people have a deeper understanding of consensual non-monogamy and healthy, sex positive relationships in general.
EPISODE 227: Interview with Libby & Cal. Libby & Cal are a folk music duo based out of Ottawa, Canada. They recently released an album that tries to subvert traditional narratives about love and lust entitled If You've Given Up on Love, Then Let's Call it Something Else. Follow their work on instagram at @libbyhortop or on facebook at facebook.com/libbycal
If you get value out of the Loving Without Boundaries podcast, then consider becoming one of our patrons! Not only will you enjoy exclusive content made just for you, your support will also help us continue creating educational content while helping more people have a deeper understanding of consensual non-monogamy and healthy, sex positive relationships in general.
https://www.patreon.com/lovingwithoutboundaries
EPISODE 226: Interview with Amelia Kelley.
Dr. Amelia Kelley is a trauma-informed therapist, Art therapist, HSP Therapist, EMDR-informed therapist and meditation and Yoga teacher. She is a presenter and writer in the science-help field and public speaker focusing on healthy relationships, Highly Sensitive Persons, trauma, motivation, healthy living, and adult ADHD. She is a trainer for the SAS Work/Life Program in Cary, NC and a resident trainer for the NC Art Therapy Institute. Her practice is part of the Traumatic Stress Research Consortium at the Kinsey Institute. Her newest book, What I Wish I Knew: Surviving and Thriving After an Abusive Relationship, was just January 10th of this year. Follow her work and adventures at her websitehttps://www.ameliakelley.com/ and on instagram https://www.instagram.com/drameliakelley/
If you get value out of the Loving Without Boundaries podcast, then consider becoming one of our patrons! Not only will you enjoy exclusive content made just for you, your support will also help us continue creating educational content while helping more people have a deeper understanding of consensual non-monogamy and healthy, sex positive relationships in general.
https://www.patreon.com/lovingwithoutboundaries
EPISODE 225: Orit Krug. Orit Krug is an award-winning Board-Certified Dance/Movement Therapist and Licensed Creative Arts Therapist who has helped transform the lives of more than 5,000 clients. A licensed therapist with her own practice, she has helped couples strengthen and expand their relationships by working through past trauma stored in the body. As Orit practices polyamory in her own life, she uses her experience and platform to ensure that partners can safely and lovingly expand beyond the normal boundaries in all of their relationships.
Follow her work and adventures at her website www.oritkrug.com or on Instagram at:
https://www.instagram.com/orit.krug/
If you get value out of the Loving Without Boundaries podcast, then consider becoming one of our patrons! Not only will you enjoy exclusive content made just for you, your support will also help us continue creating educational content while helping more people have a deeper understanding of consensual non-monogamy and healthy, sex positive relationships in general.
https://www.patreon.com/lovingwithoutboundaries
Mango Mike realized life is short, decided to move 3,000 miles across the country to chase adventure. Since then he’s lived in a van for 5 years, quit a very established career as an electrician, and is now living his dream surfing, diving, and fishing during the summer, while snowboarding deep powder during the winters.
https://www.patreon.com/lovingwithoutboundaries
Nicholas is a creativity and emotional expression coach exploring the world of ethical non-monogamy.
If you get value out of the Loving Without Boundaries podcast, then consider becoming one of our patrons! Not only will you enjoy exclusive content made just for you, your support will also help us continue creating educational content while helping more people have a deeper understanding of consensual non-monogamy and healthy, sex positive relationships in general.
https://www.patreon.com/lovingwithoutboundaries
Stephanie is an aerialist, movement artist and tantric practitioner. She has been a professional performer for 13 years and uses her in depth body knowledge in her tantric work to inspire deep somatic healing in herself and her clients. Stephanie is passionate about discovering freedom through the body, art as a tool for transformation and healing trauma through sound, breath, movement and emotional release. Follow her work and adventures @flystephaniefly @somatichealingembodiment
If you get value out of the Loving Without Boundaries podcast, then consider becoming one of our patrons!
Not only will you enjoy exclusive content made just for you, your support will also help us continue creating educational content while helping more people have a deeper understanding of consensual non-monogamy and healthy, sex positive relationships in general. https://www.patreon.com/lovingwithoutboundaries
EPISODE 221: Interview with Dr. Stephen Furlich, author of a breakthrough book, "Sex Talk: How Biological Sex Influences Gender Communication Differences Throughout Life's Stages". He has taught and researched communication at the university level for over 20 years. He has taught a variety of communication courses with the main focus of better understanding oneself and others. Often, his research projects and the courses that he taught, complemented each other and lead into innovative directions. To purchase a copy of his book visit: https://amzn.to/3NqcBKE
If you get value out of the Loving Without Boundaries podcast, then consider becoming one of our patrons!
Not only will you enjoy exclusive content made just for you, your support will also help us continue creating educational content while helping more people have a deeper understanding of consensual non-monogamy and healthy, sex positive relationships in general. https://www.patreon.com/lovingwithoutboundaries
EPISODE 220: Interview with Jess Shade. Jess Shade is a high-altitude ski mountaineer, queer cis woman, poly person, and Clinical Mental Health Counselor licensed in Utah and Michigan. Jess works closely with Utah's LGBTQ+, kink, and poly communities and serves on the board of the LGBTQ+ Affirmative Therapist Guild of Utah. Additionally, Jess supports members of the mountain sports and snow safety communities. More info can be found on Jess website: www.alturacc.com or via email: jess@alturacc.com or on IG @shade_jess
If you get value out of the Loving Without Boundaries podcast, then consider becoming one of our patrons! Not only will you enjoy exclusive content made just for you, your support will also help us continue creating educational content while helping more people have a deeper understanding of consensual non-monogamy and healthy, sex positive relationships in general. https://www.patreon.com/lovingwithoutboundaries
Alexandra Harbushka’s life was sent into upheaval when she received a call from her doctor diagnosing her with herpes. Shaking, feeling like her life - her goals, happiness, and desires - had all just gone up in smoke, she was left scared shitless and with a new mission, to share her story with people just like her and to let them know that their feelings are normal, natural, and that they are not victims. With that mission in mind, she founded Life With Herpes, an online community consisting of a podcast, a website, YouTube channel, wellness products to support the skin condition and an online community that provides support, all dedicated to shattering the stigma of living with herpes.
Before founding Life With Herpes and becoming a mother to her son Clinton and a wife to her husband Bill, Alexandra worked in corporate America with roles ranging from Ralph Lauren to selling new home construction to being a mortgage loan officer. Her education includes a bachelor degree from the University of Arizona (Bear Down to my fellow Wildcats!), a postgraduate certificate in Ministry, and is currently working on a masters in Theology. She is also an ordained minister and provides ministry counseling.
Follow her on social media:
https://www.lifewithherpes.com/
https://www.instagram.com/lifewithherpes/
https://www.tiktok.com/@lifewithherpes
https://www.instagram.com/alexandraharbushka/
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCw-XqkVAvdl4QFGUzDcZEZg
If you get value out of the Loving Without Boundaries podcast, then consider becoming one of our patrons! Not only will you enjoy exclusive content made just for you, your support will also help us continue creating educational content while helping more people have a deeper understanding of consensual non-monogamy and healthy, sex positive relationships in general.
Suzannah Weiss is a feminist writer, multi-certified sex educator, and sex/relationship coach. Her work has been published in The New York Times, The Washington Post, and more. You can learn more about her at www.suzannahweiss.com or find her on Twitter (@suzannahweiss) or Instagram (@weisssuzannah).
Steve Dean is a dating industry consultant, relationship coach, and avid community builder. Since 2011, Steve has lived nomadically around the world, testing out over 250 dating apps across 30 cities, and linking physical and virtual communities together so that people around the world can become more interconnected and less lonely. Steve hosts the Dateworking podcast where he provides practical wisdom for navigating our modern dating, relationship, and career ecosystems. You can find Steve's writing, podcast, founder interviews, and experimental events at Dateworking.com. You can find him as @stevenmdean on Twitter and Instagram.
If you get value out of the Loving Without Boundaries podcast, then consider becoming one of our patrons! Not only will you enjoy exclusive content made just for you, your support will also help us continue creating educational content while helping more people have a deeper understanding of consensual non-monogamy and healthy, sex positive relationships in general.
Susan is the Executive Director of the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom (NCSF). NCSF celebrated its 25th Anniversary in 2022 - that's over 25 years of fighting for the rights of kinky and polyamorous people. NCSF supports the groups and businesses in our communities and educates professionals so they can provide better services.
Follow them on social media at:
https://www.instagram.com/nationalcoalitionsexualfreedom/
https://www.facebook.com/NCSFreedom https://twitter.com/NCSF
If you get value out of the Loving Without Boundaries podcast, then consider becoming one of our patrons! Not only will you enjoy exclusive content made just for you, your support will also help us continue creating educational content while helping more people have a deeper understanding of consensual non-monogamy and healthy, sex positive relationships in general.
Natasha Strange has been a professional dominatrix for nearly 30 years, and offers creative sessions in a wide variety of disciplines. She also offers approachable coaching and kink education in an attempt to demystify a potentially scary topic. You can read more about her at: www.kittenwithawhip.com or follow her on Twitter: @NatashaStrange and/or Instagram: @MsNatashaStrange
If you get value out of the Loving Without Boundaries podcast, then consider becoming one of our patrons! Not only will you enjoy exclusive content made just for you, your support will also help us continue creating educational content while helping more people have a deeper understanding of consensual non-monogamy and healthy, sex positive relationships in general.
EPISODE 215: Interview with Sophie and Logan. Sophie and Logan are high school sweethearts turned partners for life, who are always looking for their next great adventure!
Learn more about the same Program that Sophie and Logan went through by clicking here, or you can also watch this FREE Masterclass: The 5-tep Formula My Clients Use to Create Healthy, Loving, Open Relationships.
If you get value out of the Loving Without Boundaries podcast, then consider becoming one of our patrons! Not only will you enjoy exclusive content made just for you, your support will also help us continue creating educational content while helping more people have a deeper understanding of consensual non-monogamy and healthy, sex positive relationships in general. https://www.patreon.com/lovingwithoutboundaries
Kate Loree, LMFT, is a sex-positive licensed marriage and family therapist with a specialty in non-monogamous, kink, LGBTQ, and sex worker communities and the author of "Open Deeply: A Guide to Building Conscious, Compassionate Open Relationships". In addition to her master’s in marriage and family therapy, she also has an MBA and is a registered art therapist (ATR). She is an EDSE certified sex educator and an EMDR certified therapist with additional training in the Trauma Resiliency Model (TRM) for the treatment of trauma. She has been practicing psychotherapy since 2003. She cohosts her own sex-positive podcast, Open Deeply, with Sunny Megatron, has been featured in Buzzfeed videos, and has been a guest on Playboy Radio and many podcasts, including American Sex, Sluts and Scholars, and Sex Out Loud. She has written for Good Vibrations and Hollywood Magazine and is a frequent public speaker. Her private practice resides in Encino, CA.
For more information, please visit her on the web at KateLoree.com or follow her on social media:
If you get value out of the Loving Without Boundaries podcast, then consider becoming one of our patrons! Not only will you enjoy exclusive content made just for you, your support will also help us continue creating educational content while helping more people have a deeper understanding of consensual non-monogamy and healthy, sex positive relationships in general.
Episode 213: Emma and Fin Interview. For Emma and Fin, life is all about seeking out adventure, embracing the chaos, and meeting amazing people along the way. They are in their mid thirties, met in seventh grade, and have been together since their freshman year of college. A year or so into their relationship it was obvious that exploring everything life had to offer was part of who they were as individuals, and as a team. They were very young at the time and neither had really experienced the world of dating, so they created a way to explore aspects of the dating world without ending their relationship, through non-monogamy. Fast forward about 11 years and they decided to start a weekly podcast called Normalizing Non-Monogamy in 2018. They absolutely love meeting new people and hearing their stories and through this podcast they get to interview people from all over the world who are exploring non-monogamy on their own terms. The hope is that if they can get enough of those stories out into the world that it will provide a resource for anyone who is considering non-monogamy. They also want to show that non-monogamy is more common than most people think and that it can be done in an ethical and consensual way. Overall, the mission is to inspire people to embrace their true selves so that, together, we can open minds and live authentically without shame.
Follow them on social media:
https://www.instagram.com/nnmpodcast/
http://www.normalizingnonmonogamy.com/
If you get value out of the Loving Without Boundaries podcast, then consider becoming one of our patrons! Not only will you enjoy exclusive content made just for you, your support will also help us continue creating educational content while helping more people have a deeper understanding of consensual non-monogamy and healthy, sex positive relationships in general.
EPISODE 212: Interview with Amelia Kelley. Dr. Amelia Kelley is a trauma-informed therapist, Art therapist, HSP Therapist, EMDR-informed therapist and meditation and Yoga teacher. She is a presenter and writer in the science-help field and public speaker focusing on healthy relationships, Highly Sensitive Persons, trauma, motivation, healthy living, and adult ADHD. She is a trainer for the SAS Work/Life Program in Cary, NC and a resident trainer for the NC Art Therapy Institute. Her practice is part of the Traumatic Stress Research Consortium at the Kinsey Institute. Her book, "What I Wish I Knew: Surviving and Thriving After an Abusive Relationship", was published in January 2022.
Follow her on social media:
https://www.instagram.com/drameliakelley/ https://www.ameliakelley.com/ https://twitter.com/DrAmeliaKelley https://insighttimer.com/kelleycounseling https://www.facebook.com/KelleyCounselingNC
If you get value out of the Loving Without Boundaries podcast, then consider becoming one of our patrons! Not only will you enjoy exclusive content made just for you, your support will also help us continue creating educational content while helping more people have a deeper understanding of consensual non-monogamy and healthy, sex positive relationships in general. https://www.patreon.com/lovingwithoutboundaries
EPISODE 211: Interview with Rachel Allyn, PhD. Rachel Allyn, PhD has been a licensed holistic psychologist for almost 20 years specializing in mind-body medicine, relationships, and intimacy issues. She helps individuals and couples cope with their mood, life transitions, and all types of relationship challenges.
As a certified yoga teacher, Dr. Allyn incorporates the body into her sessions at times and leads therapeutic mind-body workshops and retreats. She recently released a book called "The Pleasure Is All Yours: Reclaim Your Body's Bliss and Reignite Your Passion for Life". The book is based on the same topic as her 2019 TEDx talk focusing on her method of "bodyfulness," which integrates mindfulness, movement to release stress stuck in the body, and reclaiming healthy pleasures within a repressed culture. Her motto is “Pleasure to the People!” When she’s not spreading this message, you can find her skiing, surfing, or singing karaoke.
Follow her on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drrachelallyn/?hl=en, Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/people/Holistic-Psychology-by-Rachel-Allyn-PhD-YogaPsych-LLC/100034999580636/, her website: https://www.drrachelallyn.com/home, and/or check out her book: https://amzn.to/3TjvxNI
If you get value out of the Loving Without Boundaries podcast, then consider becoming one of our patrons! Not only will you enjoy exclusive content made just for you, your support will also help us continue creating educational content while helping more people have a deeper understanding of consensual non-monogamy and healthy, sex positive relationships in general. https://www.patreon.com/lovingwithoutboundaries